They decided they did want to do the Santa thing. So I decided then we needed to do Elbert the Elf too! (our version of elf on the shelf ;-) ) Two years ago Elbert joined our family as we did Kindness Elf-- charitable giving mixed with kind deeds on a level the kids could understand.
Kindness Elf Part 1
Kindness Elf Part 2
Kindness Elf Part 3
Aunt Chris and Uncle King had given the kids some Christmas money so I used that at Michael's to but supplies for each kid to have a craft for 26 days and 2 family crafts. I had to hide so Jayla wouldn't see it so it could be a surprise our magic friend Elbert would bring us each day.
Elbert even knew when our friends were coming so Alonza, Tabi, Mateo, Payden and Tivon also got to join in on our Elbert the Elf Family Time.
Family time was what I thought to be the most valuable to teach my four kids this year. We are a newly formed family and I want them to know that they aren't just here to have a roof over their heads but because they are loved and I want to be an active participant in their life, not just a financial provider. Jayla joined us after spending 3 months with only a little time with her bio parents so this gave her time to bond more with her new siblings of sort and an activity to do with her parents when they weren't working or dealing with adult issues.
So on Nov 30th Elbert the elf appeared along with our Christmas coutdown.
Elbert the Elf appeared on day 1 with ornaments to make, one penguin ornament already done and a box for each kid to put their ornaments in after Christmas. |
You can see our Christmas coundown. we added a cotton ball each day to either the angel, tree, stocking or Santa's beard-- each kid had their own |
Their initial ornaments |
Elbert brought extra crafts to do with our buddy Alonza |
Elbert was a star visitor for our mini party for Tabi's birthday too.
a special birthday dinner playdate with Alayna, Andrea and Adrianna for Tabi's bday at our house |
Dec 25 4:45am, Dec 26 4:45am |
On Dec 26th after work, I took the tree down, separated the kids ornaments, put them in their boxes and then into a Rubbermaid tote for safe dry storage. After all with a tree overflowing with ornaments and now two curious cats with free access combined with the fact our family grew hugely, that space was needed for more important things----
sorting |
boxed all up |
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