Thursday, December 31, 2015

IT WAS THE BEST OF TIMES... IT WAS THE WORST OF TIMES...

Yeah that title should cover our year.  I am still 3 blogs behind, but It's time to post our year end letter and card.  Hopefully all the ones we mailed arrived .... and well if not here it is anyways, Because postage is too expensive to mail out more than 50 and everyone should be equally entertained or bored by our life (or at least the summarized version with the positive highlights!)


December 2015
Dear Friends and Family,
            I am forcing my fingers to get busy and not skip out on my annual Christmas letter and card like I did last year.  Our life has been plenty busy, full of change, adventure and blessings.  However, that won't be an excuse not to reconnect with you all this season.  As we have learned all too well, time is not promised; and we want to take this time and share our life with all our loved ones, near and far.
            In December 2014 Beth changed jobs.  After three years as a crossing guard she held her last stop sign and wore her last silly hat in the middle of the street and as the school closed for Winter Break she ventured out into her newest endeavor as a Dietitian Aide at our main local hospital.  She kept doing the part time job at the answering service on weekends until June.  Now she happily is a one job girl and enjoys her work at the hospital.  Marko and Beth are celebrating their 12th year of marriage this December.
            Marko is still with the same company and doing mostly security work in the IT field.  His biggest workplace joy was getting his top level security clearance which has opened doors for him to work on more projects mostly on military bases.  He travels about 25% of the time and he enjoys getting to travel.  He can now check California off his list of states he has been too.  He found that pretty exciting.
            Anthony turned 11 in February with a Steeler's Football themed sleepover with his two best friends.  He is in the 6th grade and plays spring soccer with his School as well as being on the school's cross country team.  Away from school he enjoys video games too much and has really gotten into bicycle riding.  We have done many longer rides as a family (ok minus Marko) and just Beth and Anthony throughout the summer.  Anthony managed to break two bones in two months last year; First his nose and then his arm.  He got to sport a black cast until March.  Yes, we even consider injuries noteworthy accomplishments in our Christmas letters!
            Jayna turned 10 in April with her cowgirl themed sleepover with 5 friends.  She is in the 4th grade and does gymnastics, drama and art club at her school.  She is also on the Cross Country team and says she is doing soccer this spring.  We will see.  Her passion is the arts; both drama and arts and crafts.  She added an interest in rocks and science this fall too.  Her highlight of both this year and last, is easily the school Christmas play where she earned her role as a main character both years.  Next week she will star as Greta Van Popcorn, a reporter in their play, A King is Coming.
            Our life got a lot more exciting this summer as our family grew for the first time in over 10 years.  Our sweet Angela joined our family and immediately fit right in.  The summer didn't come without some heartache for her, but she is a strong young lady and knows how to be optimistic which will take her far.  In August we gained full legal and physical custody of her.  We celebrated by lunch just Beth and her at the Olive Garden, which was a first for her.  She is 17 and in the 11th grade.  She is taking nursing at school and when she graduates she will do so with her diploma and a CNA license.  The household is now filled with endless giggles and selfies!
            Our family grew by two more in July.  This time they were hairy kids.  We adopted Sampson from the local Humane Society and Phoenix from a litter of kittens about to go to the Humane Society.  We aren't typically pet people and I wasn't even a cat fan, and yet these two furry critters have won over all our hearts easily.
            We were able to enjoy several summer trips together.  We went to Pennsylvania twice to visit Beth's sister, her husband and their 4 boys.  We went to Chincoteague Island for our beach vacation along with Poppy and Grandma Joy.  Beth and the three kids were able to visit her brother Zach and his wife Rebekah where they are stationed in Baltimore and even went on a day trip to D.C. together.  Our final summer trip was to West Virginia to celebrate Papa's 90th birthday, Nana's birthday and their anniversary too.
            Life stays plenty busy now a days between school, work, the younger two enjoying Pathfinders Club and the oldest babysitting 4 days a week after school.  But apparently we still had room for more love and more things to do.  Sadly we did receive bad news in August as Beth’s mom was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer.  She had surgery to remove the tumor and part of the colon in Oct.  Unfortunately, that didn’t remove all the cancer, so she starts chemo Jan 4th.
            In early November, little Jayla joined our family.  She is 4, and will likely be with us through the winter.  She has brought a lot of new excitement into our family.  She's in Pre-K and enjoys learning and playing at school.  The three girls wasted no time creating her her own bedroom upstairs in the girls room. Then after beloved Thanksgiving trip to WV and time with our cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents, it was decided it was in Jayla's best interest to have her parents here full time.  So her parents are enjoying our living room suite as temporary sleeping quarters, until they get back on their feet.
            This year has been an exciting one filled with many new adventures, a lot of love and a little bit of adjustment pains as we entered each new phase that life handed us.  We hope you too can look back on your year with smiles of blessings remembered throughout your year.
Love,
The Sykes Family; Marko, Beth, Angela, Anthony, Jayna and Jayla and Sampson and Phoenix too of course

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1 comment:

  1. Thanks for a family's fine wrapup to 2015 on the last day of the year!

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